Flow and Shine …


Welcome back to our happiness platform where we share experiences with happy and not so happy moments.

It is always a very inspiring experience for me to share with you my most intimate passion: the contagious effect of happiness, which causes health, wealth and well-being.

As I sit on the warm Dubai beach, I flow and shine in total peace and gratitude …

Today I want to share with you how I live in flow, living in a constant glow.

For this, we must  be aware of who you are; where you are, because your way of seeing life will determine the direction of your connection with Flow …

Do you know where you are starting from?

Is your lens of life based on  grateful or fearful thoughts?

What are the paradigms that govern your now ?


Paradigms are the thoughts in our  subconscious mind that govern our life; scientists say that they provoke 95% of our actions.

Which of the two scenarios resonates with you the most?

Scenario 1

I have to work hard to reach my goals for a successful and abundant life!

This statement focuses on “working hard”, bringing a reality from the need to invest a great effort, knowing that we will be creating stress.

It’s easy to get tired of that hard work even before starting.

Scenario 2

I am grateful for another day of life, smiles and maybe challenges that will create learning experiences to share with my colleagues at work!

The above statement allows us to feel creative, passionately motivated to flow, knowing that the Life Force that Creates in Constant Motion is within me, directing my trajectory in a celebration party.

Flowing creatively or being irresponsibly complacent?

Where is the boundary between flowing creatively and being irresponsibly complacent?

This depends on how you live your life:

A modus vivendis in which we never negotiate our dreams, constantly moving in coherence, where our heart and brain are aligned in a direction where you feel good, aligned, serene, clear, leading to results bigger than you can even imagine.

A way of life that  It is driven by uncertainty and lack of purpose that does not care about lack of clarity; thoughts and actions are out of alignment, creating an “ahhh … whatever …” effect due to lack of self-esteem. What I do doesn’t really matter, who am I anyway? I am not enough to know how to decide …

Yes indeed it is a very fine line, super linked to the answer to the following question:

How much do you realize the miracle that you are, that we all are?

It is essential that you respond positively to the previous question if you want to flow in the magnificence of just being :

I am an incredible creation of the life force that creates in constant motiom, like all Creations in the Universe.

You may ask yourself the following questions:

What is flow?
What flow is not?
Why flow?
How can I believe in flow? < br clear = “none”> How do I know I’m in the flow?
How can I tap into the flow?
Can I just flow and achieve success?
When to flow?

What is flow?

It is the ability to simply believe that everything is perfect the way it is and that everyone is good. Therefore, it is not possible to judge or criticize oneself nor others.

The flow is intrinsically connected with a feeling of clarity and inner peace, in which kindness and gratitude are at the core of your actions. This drives the brain to produce endorphins (hormones of happiness) that cause the expansion of the inter-cellular space, allowing Light to flow freely in our body and generate that feeling of clarity, peace, ahhh …

What Flow is not

Flow has nothing to do with not caring about a good result, irresponsibly as if saying: “Don’t worry, everything will be fine”, says Jose, while spending the money for his baby’s food  in drugs.

When you negligently allow things to happen to you without clarity or a sense of creativity, moving haphazardly in every way, you will create a sense of mistrust and doubt. You see too many options and you think you are not able to distinguish which decision is the best to make. Then you start blaming yourself and others, pretending that your actions are maybe the right ones, even knowing that other people will be negatively affected …

Why Flow?

Flow is the natural way of living that our neighbors in nature display with total faith, as if they had decided that the only option they have is to be happy … and flow.

Birds know how to build their nests and what kind of insects they should eat; ants know how to build tunnels and delegate activities;  if you go to our internal organs, they also know how to be: the heart beats as it takes filtered oxygen through our lungs to pump it for miles of blood vessels that oxygenate our bodies.

Everything points to the truth that flow allows us to live a wonderful life, full of creativity, coherence, connection with the Source.

How can I believe in the flow?

If you ask yourself the question above, that means that you are too interested in analyzing and asking for scientific evidence and explanations to accept that there is something called flow.

In fact, I think this constant willingness to want to know how and why can block our ability to just be in the full sense of the word …

For example: how long does it take you jump  into a pool? One second. Exactly.

And how long does it take you to decide to jump into that pool? Well, it can take you 20 years to do it, if you’re full of questions and non-answers that keep you from simply jumping.

Flow is that internal feeling that makes us feel a ahhhh…I feel so good..., hand in hand with intuition, connecting with the act of creating …; It is a feeling of positive creativity that makes your cells expand, opening the space between cells so that the light that created you, created us , flows in your system, as oxygen flows in our veins and arteries.

It is that precise moment in which It is not possible to complain, criticize or judge … you are flowing in the river of peace, gratitude, wow … provoking your health, wealth and well-being while being extremely contagious.

How do I know I’m in the flow?

You only know . Your smile encompasses everything and anything. Feel the greatness within  nothing and everything.

There is no sense of doubt, and nothing can make you feel anxious or aggressive.

On the contrary, you can feel the flow between you and others, as smiles melt everywhere driven by yours and hugs just happen.

Ahhhh …

How can I get into the flow?

 By not criticizing or judging yourself nor others …  living in the absolute now.

Living in the now means not giving yourself time to create problems or worries. In order to exist, a problem needs time to breed, in the past or in the future. But being in the present moment the problems cannot be conceived.

This is not easy to do if you live in a metropolis where achieving, producing, changing the world and leading is a must to be successful.

This is what you will need if you are not already in the flow in the flow

  • Know that your body is a gift from Source so that you have a vehicle to transport yourself on Mother Earth. As such, you feel a boundless love for him, investing whatever it takes to ensure his health and well-being
  • Sleep in gratitude and appreciation for a day of service to you from this divine vehicle
  • Eat nutritious food, appreciating the benefits that your body will receive, thanking the food providers and Mother Earth for each bite
  • Move your body thanking each bone, muscle, blood vessel, organ … realizing that we are all a miraculous being
  • Speak kindly, allowing generous, inclusive and celebratory thoughts
  • Observe and appreciate Mother Earth in every flower, bird, insect, clouds, mountains … communicate
    with  them consciously … and smiles appreciatively. Do the same with your internal organs … appreciating their incredible work, all meant for you to breathe …
  • Celebrate, celebrate, celebrate

Can I just flow and be successful?

To flow in the Flow is the success.

When you flow,  it’s not about you, but everything is through you by the Creator. In this state of flow you will reach destinations that you did not even know existed, with an effortless effort, living every moment in the absolute Now.

When you flow, things just happen to you. Like for me to be an international interpreter just happened to me; to have the most admired husband just happened to me; to become a writer and speaker just happened to me; to become a mom just happened to me;  to be the founder of Villas Xichu, Celebrating LIfe, just happened to me.

Becoming a Dubai-based Happinizer, simply happened to me …

What’s next, I wonder?

Whatever it is, I know that what follows is as magnificent as my now, this now in which I share with you my experience with life.

Everything just happens in the direction of your dreams; dreams which you know ther are your dreams, and you decrete them clearly .

When to flow?

Just like the river does not ask when it is convenient to flow and it simply flows all the time, in the same way,  simply  flow at all times.

What fun!

Are you ready to just flow?

There is a lot of material on the Internet that will “teach” you what Flow is, offering you scientific proof of everything. From books to webinars, workshops and podcasts.

On this platform,  I don’t visit that sacred space, appreciating all the researchers who patiently brought science to be at our service.

In this happy space I just flow in gentleness and appreciation, which is the world I live in now.

Yes, for 16 years I lived in the world of victims where everyone was there to catch me, causing me to live in anxiety and therefore illness for years.

The only thing that got me out of there and onto the platform of great of me, therefore great we, was to apply that unshakable faith that everything simply is.

Just be in the knowledge, know that everything is fine just the way it is.

Come let’s flow!

In the following drawings, I share with you how I flow and shine, infecting whoever is around me … including you!

Together, let’s spark our ongoing health, wealth, and well-being.

doesn't have to be this way!

It used to be in the Flow of fear, not allowing the intercellular space to open for the Light to simply flow … causing sickness, anguish and loneliness …

Nobody could understand me...neither myself! Always in search...

No one could understand me … not even myself! Always searching

… like a fish asking: “Where is the water?”

Fear based worried thoughts blurred my vision...

Fear Driven Thoughts Blurred My Vision … Negative Flow Causes Sickness, Shortage  and more fear … envy, jealousy, intolerance, criticism, judgment… etc.

Where's the water? You are swimming in it! No need to search anymore...

“Tell me where is the water?”

“You are swimming in it! You don’t need to look any further … now share your experience with others. Be a contagious agent of happiness, thankful no matter what!”

Positive Thoughts lead to Positive results. Our inner technology is infalible!

Positive thoughts lead to positive results.

Our inner technology is infallible! Just apply gratitude!

With my Japanese acquired Grandma

Now he was back on his feet, learning languages in the world, becoming financially independent at age 21 in Tokyo, Japan. Here with my “adopted” Japanese granny. That honor!

a letter that changed the flow of my life

A letter that changed the flow of my life

a letter that changed the flow of my life

These early jobs guided me to become an international interpreter based in Europe, founding Globel Worldwide Interpreting Services, translating in 10 languages

While working as an interpreter I met my husband… getting married in Italy

Became a Mom

Seven years later I became a very happy and grateful mom

Villas Xichu Happiness Oasis in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico was born

WIthout even knowing, I founded  Villas Xichu, Celebrating Life in San Miguel de Allende, México

This place was not constructed; it was born as it flowed in the flow of appreciation towards the workers who built it…


The happy flow I live in made me a writer…


…and speaker…

...and a happinizer...

…and happinizer..

Aisha Bin Bisr happinizing Smart Dubai

“Landing” in the emirate that has established a Ministry of Happiness, Dubai; here during the World Government Summit and Dialogue for Happiness with Aisha Bin Bishr from Smart Dubai

Receiving the Burj Award for the global happiness ambassador in London

The flow led me to be honored and surprised to receive the Burj Award for Happiness Ambassador  in London

Aprendiendo de Bhutan GNH

I got involved in learning about the application of happiness by governments,

GNH (gross national happiness)


I became the proud ambassador of Sindashi, art made fashion,  honoring the artistic life of Mexican painters,  adding so much spice to my life and that of my family and friends.


Entering the world of fashion and creativity only by flowing with Sindashi


Feeling so proud to carry the feelings and dreams of my

Mexican artists wherever I go


Enjoying the Arab Fashion Week,in the famous Queen Elizabeth 2, forty years after it sailed for the first time.

.Now it’s docked like a hotel in Dubai


God gave me a Chinese daughter as I kept flowing  in the flow


And in that flow of wanting to incite others to decide to be happy and stay happy, no matter what, my dream team in our Life Celebration center, Villas Xichu, continues to flourish, allowing their happiness to spread to that of our clients.


This way of living led me to mentor millennials, increasing that Flow that makes us shine when we exchange experiences …  Hello tree! Thanks for your wisdom!


Admiring my spouse has added so much to the unlimited and free flow of my life.


Feeling my ancestors at all times … allowing and admiring the ancestral flow

Stop accumulating knowledge

Let the flow flow.

Just do it…

Jump into the pool; no more analyzing or preparing to jump in the pool …

Enjoy the trip.

Your trip!

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